In the short space of time I’ve started accepting more I’ve found myself in situations and/or doing things I wouldn’t have dreamt of doing before. Instead of worrying about what we’d speak about over a 3 course meal and wine, I accepted an invite to dinner with someone I normally wouldn’t hang out with and ended up having the most informative and interesting conversation I’ve had in a while. Instead of putting myself down and thinking I have nothing to give, I accepted an offer and now I’m writing about things I love on my own terms for a paycheque. Instead of focusing on my body insecurities and worrying about what people might think of me, I’ve bared my (not so perfect) tummy and flat chest on multiple posts for my website.
I’ve even found myself in a strip club for the first and probably last time in my life. Ha! All things I would have easily turned down in a heartbeat. I realised that the root of most, if not all, of my No’s was a feeling of fear. I couldn’t dare ask for that, I couldn’t dare dream of this, what would person ABC think of me or what would we even speak about? Fear has an uncanny way of planting a tiny seed which makes you question yourself, which then manifests into doubt. Fear and doubt are dangerous dream killers and I was done giving up on things before I even tried. I dared to say yes. In a small way, that first Yes felt like a risk. A leap if you will. Looking back now it seems so insignificant but that first yes allowed me to start saying yes more, which led me to bigger things. Taking baby crawls towards my dreams started with a YES. Dare to say Yes.
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Thank you Kef!
WOW! you look BEAUTIFUL…
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Thank you! 💋
Wow! I like YOU a loooooot after reading this. Gee I’m a flat chested girl myself and fill up with padded bras I think I’m just going to stop that altogether and just be my fabulous flat chested self:)
I also went to a strip club and boy I know I satisfied the curiosity and I’m never gonna be seen there again…..except if it’s a ladies club(males) hahah
I’m on a journey to redefine myself and the voice that ridicules me is getting smaller by day…I’m getting to that self confident space one step at a time.
thank you for sharing everything….XoXo
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Thank you Princess!!
I love how people think flat chested girls have it easy because we don’t “HAVE” to wear bras, which is true but we end up wearing bras not to support our boobies but to actually give us boobies! We’re never happy!
Good Luck on your journey on self discovery. Reaching the point in your life where you are happy and content with you who are feels like the greatest victory. I’m constantly working towards it but I’m happy to say I’ve made progress. I may not be where I want to be, but I sure as hell am not where I was before!